Friday, July 27, 2007


Let me post something simple here:

Sometimes i feel...........

Time does not heal all wounds; it’s just that over time
Your mind and heart shields itself against anyone who wants to come in again

Cry Alone....



Fearing loneness,


diseased against myself


now


I cry


alone......................!

Thursday, July 26, 2007


I believed him...........

when he said................

he loved me.......................!!!!!

TREASURE YOUR FRIENDS


Life is a fast lane. Every now and then you will meet new faces and new friends.
But are you such a kind of person who cherishes friendship? If you ask me the same question, my answer is yes of course.
Having a circle of friends is like having a family too. They are there in times of joy and sorrow. A true friend is when she/he is in your side no matter what the world brings.
A person who will give you positive advice and outlook in life.
If you have friends, don't let the time pass by without saying hello personally or through emails.
Inform them that you are still there even if you are time apart.
Even if you are thousands of miles apart. The world now is getting smaller everyday because of the Internet.
Take sometime to send cards through email and you will also be remembered. My friend has contacted me lately because I never forget to sent forward emails to him to read. Don't lose any friends, they might help building your business someday!!!!

A successful Relationship...


A boy was born to a couple after 11 years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eye. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked his wife To cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and fascinated by its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.


QUESTIONS: 1. What were the four words?



2. What is the implication of this story?




ANSWER:

The husband just said, "I Love You Darling."

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband that is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiving attitude,selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.



"A successful relationship requires falling in love many times -with the same person."

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

The Best We Can Be [honoring our children]


Everything we do and say in the presence of our children makes an impression on them. We may think we can get away with swearing or gossiping in front of them when they can’t talk, but we have forgotten that just because they can’t talk doesn’t mean they don’t hear. They are sensitive sponges absorbing their environment in ways we will never know. Even if the words don’t make sense to them, they make an impression, as does the energy behind the words. We honor our children when we acknowledge that they are fully present from the very beginning and when we offer ourselves to them in ways that model the best of what humans can be.


When we bring a child into the world, a great welling up of love and hope fills our hearts. We unequivocally want the very best for our children, and we want to be the best parents a child could ever want. We begin to see ourselves and our lives in a different light, and things that seemed okay before we had a child suddenly reveal themselves as problematical. This can lead to a somewhat mincing review of our habits of speech, thought and feeling, our relationships, and our physical habits. We may feel that we have put ourselves under a microscope, which can be stressful. However, it can also lead to a great healing of our own unresolved issues and, in turn, it enables us to be good parents to our children. Talking to other conscious parents about this life transformation can be very helpful.


Our desire to become the best we can be is often strongest at the very beginning of a child’s life and sometimes loses its intensity as we grow accustomed to their presence. However, it is never too late to look at ourselves and notice whether we are offering our best to our children. That original welling up of love and hope can inspire us throughout our lives to be the best we can be.


What do you think?

Monday, July 23, 2007

Biggest..




The world's biggest power is-



the youth and beauty of a woman.

He'll come some day...One day..!


Someday he'll come along
the man i love
and he'll be big and strong
the man i love
and when he comes my way
i'll do my best to make him stay
he'll look at me and smile
i'll understand
then in a little while
he'll take my hand
and though it seems absurd
i know we both won't say a word
maybe i shall meet him sunday
maybe monday, maybe not
still i'm sure to meet him one day
maybe tuesday will be my good news day
he'll build a little home
that's meant for two
from which i'll never roam
who would, would you
and so all else above
i'm dreaming of the man i love

Sunday, July 22, 2007

You'll say "don't fear your dreams"
















You'll say "don't fear your dreams"
It's easier than it seems
You'll say you'd never let me fall
from hopes so high

But never is a promise
and you can't afford to lie
You'll never live this life that
I liveI'll never live the life


that wakes me in the night
You'll never hear the message I give
You'll say it looks as though
I might give up this fight



But as the scenery grows
I see in different lights
The shades and shadows undulate
in my perception

My feelings swell and stretch
I see from greater heights
I realize what I am now
too smart to mention, to you



You'll say you understand
You'll never understand
I'll say I'll never wake up
knowing how or why


I don't know what to believe in
You don't know who I am
You'll say I need appeasing
when I start to cry



But never is a promise
and I'll never need a lie !

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Keep Me From Falling...


Keep me from falling...

YouTube - The Evolution Of Beauty

YouTube - The Evolution Of Beauty

All I Want to do....



And it is so strange




With these eyes




out into darkness




And it is so strange




All they want to do




is sleep








And it is so strange




They want to sleep




through silence




And it is so strange




'Cause I am wide awake




And it is so strange




How all this




could be over








If you would walk in




If you put me to rest




And it is so strange




That my voice




seems to've gone quiet




And even stranger still








That I never will be found




All I want to do




Is to drift away




Hush-a-bye baby




All I want to do is




go to sleep








To sleep, to sleep

Friday, July 20, 2007

Breathing...



“Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day


is the rest we take between two deep breaths.”

LOVE....



“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot ,
who calls you back when you hang up on him ,
who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat
or will stay awake just to watch you sleep...
wait for the boy who kisses your fore-head,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats..;
holds your hand in front of his friends ,
who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on.
One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares..
and how lucky he is to have you....
The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”
Ahhh.....if only...if only..there were real men likes these,
who existed...!
Unfortunately you can just imagine and dream...
And they exist only in your mind...!

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

I WISH I COULD HAVE LOVED YOU MORE!



When you wish upon a star,


makes no difference who you are


Anything your heart desires will come to you


If your heart is in your dreams


no request is too extreme


When you wish upon a star as dreamers do


Fate is kind,


she brings to those who love


The sweet fulfillment of their secret longing


Like a bolt out of the blue,


fate steps in and sees you thru


When you wish upon a star,


your dreams come true

Sunday, July 15, 2007

WHY DO YOU?



Rest not.


Life is sweeping by;


go and dare before you die.

Understanding...


"It is only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it were the only one we had."

MARRIAGE


“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person”





Marriage statistics are disheartening to look at. Half of marriages end in divorce.

It's a fact, but it isn't the full reality. The statistics don't even take "seperations" into account.

A lot of people are legally married and yet no longer together.

It just costs too much money for the lawyer fees and they don't want to deal with the hassle.


So MORE than half of marriages fail.

Yet people are getting married every day even though the odds are clearly against them succeeding.


Why is that?


I guess it's for the same reason my husband I got married.

We want to believe that we're going to be the small percentage bracket that makes it to the end.


The old couple on the park bench holding hands and gazing into eachother's sagging watery eyes still with the love and passion that we feel today.

I looked forward to growing old with my hubby!


Thats why chose these dolls for the picture;

Its hard to ignore how they both look a little afraid and uneasy!

TEARS



"Take a good look at my face


you'll see that my smile looks out of place


Just take a look closer


it's easy to trace


the tracks of my tears..."

"Dreams of Loneliness

Like a heartbeat ..

drives you mad

In the stillness of remembering what you had

And what you lost ...

what you had ...

what you lost..."

-Dreams





When I woke up this morning, I didn't want to get out of bed.

It was just a heavy feeling of sadness that pushed my body deeper into the sheets.

It all felt pointless all of a sudden.

What's the use in fighting?

I should have known it would have ended up this way.

No one ever said life was "Fair"?

Why do we keep believing that it could be?

I rolled over in the bed, hugged my pillow and just drifted back into sleep.